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She and I are both 18 and seniors. Today marks one year since we started dating. I’m wondering if there’s anything I can do to help her out or make her feel a little better when she’s on her period. Disclaimer: she’s a very sweet girl, and that doesn’t change depending on whether it’s happening or not. She doesn’t get difficult or have any mood swings as far as I can tell. She just mentions having cramps and discomfort, so I’m wondering how I can help her as her boyfriend.

Do you feel like you can’t trust your partner or that your partner doesn’t trust you? Not having trust in a relationship can lead to major problems and might even end your relationship. For most of us, even when we do realize that we’re not in a perfect relationship, we do nothing to fix it as the months pass by. We don’t get out of it, nor do we try to communicate and change it for the better. There are many aspects of our everyday interaction with people closest to us that can go haywire. We can all develop interpersonal relationship issues around things like sex, money, or fighting about who does more than the other. If trust issues aren’t the number one cause of breakups, it has to be one of the leading causes. In my brief time alive, I’ve noticed that the problems most couples face are usually arguments that can be traced to insecurities masked as trust issues. And then, we whine about how unfair love is to us. But if you think about it, the direction of your relationship

Mapenzi yana kanuni zake, kanuni ambazo usipozifuata huwezi kupata furaha uliyotarajia. Unapotokea kumpenda mtu, hiyo ni hatua ya kwanza lakini omba sana upate ile bahati ya kumpenda mtu ambaye naye anakupenda kwa dhati. Kwa bahati mbaya ukitokea kumzimikia mtu ambaye wala hana hata chembe za penzi kwako, utaumia sana na kama utalazimisha kuwa naye, utakuwa unajitafutia vidonda vya tumbo. Hata hivyo, wapo waliobahatika kuwapata wapenzi wa ukweli lakini kwa kushindwa kwao kujua yapi ya kufanya ili kudumisha penzi, leo hii wameachika na bado wanaranda mtaani. Kwa kifupi ni kwamba, unapoingia kwenye uhusiano na mtu na ukabaini naye anakupenda, hutakiwi kubweteka bali unatakiwa kutumia utundu na ubunifu wako katika yale ambayo yatamfanya huyo mtu wako ahisi wewe ni wa pekee kwake. Ninapozungumzia hayo, namaanisha ubunifu kwenye mambo mengi ambayo hakika nikianza kuyaelezea hapa, nafasi inaweza isitoshe ila kwa leo nigusie utundu katika uwanja wetu ulee wa kujidai. Faragha ni eneo muh

Nilipohamishiwa kanda ya ziwa kikazi toka Dar. nilimtafuta dalali ili anisaidie kunitafutia nyumba, kweli alipata nyumba ya mama mmoja hivi ambaye kiutamaduni ni mtani wangu na yy huwa ananiita mtani. Sasa kwanza hana mume, mumewe alifariki mwaka jana mwezi wa 4 na ana watoto wakubwa tu wengine wapo vyuoni na mmoja anafanya kazi dar. Toka mwezi huu uanze ameanza kunionyeshea tabia fulani fulani, kila nikitoka kazini anakuja ndani mwangu anakaa na wakati mwingine kumbe anakuja amefunga kanga tu. Jana nimetoka kazini nikapita Hotelini kula nikakaa hadi saa 2 usiku nimerudi home aliposikia nafungua mpango tu huyo akaja na chakula nikamwambia nimeshiba nishakula, akanilazimisha kuwa chukua ule, nikapokea nikakiweka mezani then akakaa, akaniambia niwashe TV nikawasha. Nikaenda kuoga kurudi naingia chumbani na yy huyo kafika akaniambia ngoja nikupake mafuta nikasema hapana sipaki mafuta usiku, aise si akakaa kitandani!! kumbe hakuwa na nguo ya ndani akabenua kanga mapaja

For years and in countless relationship magazine articles, women have been sharing with us what they want in a man. Conversely, the frequency of articles on what men want in a woman is much less, I’d even go as far as to say rare. One can only speculate as to why this deluge of articles on what women want, but if I had to guess, I’d say one reason is men tend not to share feelings, making it difficult to know what they really want in a woman and out of a relationship. Almost all of us are familiar with what women want in a man. We read about it often enough. Among the top women wants are a trustworthy, dependable and monogamous man. A man with eyes only for her and whose love and good treatment is exclusive. Security is also a biggie. Even if she has a gun and a martial arts black belt, and is several strata above her man economically speaking, her man should be a protector, is what women say they want, irrespective of whether she can take care of herself well enough.

Wanaume walio wengi hawajui jinsi ya kucheza na mwili wa mwanamkei ili ampe nyege za kumfikisha kilelen Wengi wao wana pupa ya kungonoka tu na kuzifurahisha nyoyo zao tu kwakua wao ni rahis sana kwa kupata hisia kuliko wanawake Mwanaume anajifikilia raha zake tu na si rsha kwa wote, mapenz ni starehe za pande mbili ziridhike ili kusiwepo na dukuduku la mmoja kuikosa ile radha halisi Weng wa wanaume wakiwa kwenye sex hupenda kushila shika matiti, kisimi na denda kwa muda mchache akifkir inatosha kumuandaa mwanamke MAANDALIZI Unatakiwa umuandae kisaikolojia mpz wako kwa kumpa maneno matam ya mapenz na yenye kuamsha hamasa Andaa mazingira na sehem nzur kwaajili ya hilo zoez, kwa mfano vifaa kama ~Maji ~sabuni ~taulo ~Kanga ~Miski ~Vicks au pipi kali ~Chocret ~Mafuta ~Asali n.k MAENEO YA KUCHEZA NAYO Yapo maeneo muhimu sana ya kucheza nayo kwenye mwili wa mwanamke ~Mdomoni ~shingoni ~Masikioni ~Kifuan/matiti ~Tumbo na kitovu ~Mbavun na mstari wa uti wa mgongo ~Kisi

No one would raise an eyebrow if you choose to keep friends of the opposite sex. Definitely, there is nothing wrong with that. And some people actually believe that such friendships are the best types you would find anywhere. The idea is that people are mature enough to make friends in ways they deem fit without being watched and bothered about how they want to go about their lives and things they find appealing. So it’s cool to have friends of the opposite sex. That’s settled. One of the things that hardly get spoken about, however, is how to manage sexual connections and tension between you and someone of the opposite sex who is our friend. Because friends get sexually attracted to each other, too. Now when you find yourself in that situation where you and a friend begin to feel sexually drawn to each other, or perhaps, the attraction flows only from one person to the other, what do you do in such situation? The first thing would be to consider the friendship and whether you ar

Mapenzi yana kanuni zake, kanuni ambazo usipozifuata huwezi kupata furaha uliyotarajia. Unapotokea kumpenda mtu, hiyo ni hatua ya kwanza lakini omba sana upate ile bahati ya kumpenda mtu ambaye naye anakupenda kwa dhati. Kwa bahati mbaya ukitokea kumzimikia mtu ambaye wala hana hata chembe za penzi kwako, utaumia sana na kama utalazimisha kuwa naye, utakuwa unajitafutia vidonda vya tumbo. Hata hivyo, wapo waliobahatika kuwapata wapenzi wa ukweli lakini kwa kushindwa kwao kujua yapi ya kufanya ili kudumisha penzi, leo hii wameachika na bado wanaranda mtaani. Kwa kifupi ni kwamba, unapoingia kwenye uhusiano na mtu na ukabaini naye anakupenda, hutakiwi kubweteka bali unatakiwa kutumia utundu na ubunifu wako katika yale ambayo yatamfanya huyo mtu wako ahisi wewe ni wa pekee kwake. Ninapozungumzia hayo, namaanisha ubunifu kwenye mambo mengi ambayo hakika nikianza kuyaelezea hapa, nafasi inaweza isitoshe ila kwa leo nigusie utundu katika uwanja wetu ulee wa kujidai.

The price of a successful relationship is devotion. Devotion is, essentially, commitment to something we value. What are we devoted to? Surely not what another person wants. I think most people would agree that being devoted to that would be problematic even with the best of people. So, what exactly are we devoted to? We are devoted to the wellbeing of another person. And we are devoted to the wellbeing of the relationship. We honor the value of the other person. And we honor the worth of the relationship. All significant relationships have a price. It’s not that relationships are a sacrifice. After all, who wants a life of sacrifice? It is more a matter of priorities. We can’t do everything in life, and we can’t be with everyone in life. In choosing what we will do and with whom, we automatically make priorities. If something is at the top of our list then other things have to come second or third or last.

Wanawake wanapenda uhuru sana lakini hawajui athari za uhuru. Tumeshuhudia katika zama hizi za Utandawazi wakidai haki mbalimbali ikiwemo haki ya maamuzi katika mitindo yao ya maisha mathalan mitindo ya mavazi. Bila ya wao kujua mchawi ni nani. Wamejikuta wakilalamika na kuona kadiri siku ziendavyo ndivyo heshima yao inashuka. Mchawi ni wao wenyewe. Ile heshima waliyokuwa wakipewa zamani sasa imepungua kama sio kuisha kabisa. Kwa sasa thamani ya wanawake imepungua si ajabu inaweza kuthaminiwa na pesa na kununulika kama bidhaa tuu. Siku hizi ukihitaji mwanamke huna haja ya kufikiri wala kuumiza kichwa sana kutokana na kuwa 80% ya wanawake hununulika tena kwa kipande cha mkate tu. Ni jambo linalosikitisha sana. Tena lenye kuumiza zaidi na zaidi na kupoteza ule utukufu wa mwanamke. Kuachiwa uhuru uliopitiliza kwa wanawake kumepelekea vijana kukosa hamasa ya kuoa. Iweje waoe ikiwa huduma zote wanazipata. Si rahisi kuoa mwanamke bikra katika zama hizi. Na hii pia inaweza

1.Demu wako wa zamani Ni vizuri kutorudia mahusiano ya zamani na zaidi kama kwenye mahusiano yenu ya mwanzo mambo hayakuishia kwa uzuri. Sababu kuu ya msingi, kiukweli ni kwamba hakika mwanzoni mlikuwa hamuendani na ndio sababu ya iliyopelekea kuvunjika kwa mahusiano yenu, ndani ya hizo sababu kuna vitu vilivyopolekea kutokea kwa hayo, ukichunguza na kuziangalia kwa makini utagundua ni za asili na ambazo si rahisi kwa mmoja wenu kuzibadilisha sababu ni vitu au mambo ambayo yatakuwa ni ya damuni. 2.Dada wa rafiki yako kipenzi Epukana na kujiingiza kwenye mahusiano na dada wa rafiki yako. Si tu kwamba utaweza kujiingiza kwenye uhasama na chuki kama mambo hayatakwenda sawa, ila pia utaweza kujiweka kwenye mazingira ya kujikuta siku moja unapigwa hata ngumi za uso sababu tu ulimuumiza dada yake. Pia, utaweza kumkosa mtu ambaye ndie alikuwa ni kimbilio lako kwa mambo mbalimbali pale ambapo itatokea wewe na dada yake mambo kutokwenda sawa, sababu hapo patakuwa na mgongano wa kimasl

It is normal for us ladies to spill everything about our lives to our closest girlfriends. Some of us even have a special day each week to meet with the girlfriends and discuss our lives in depth. However, when in a serious relationship, there are things about your man you should never tell your girlfriends. The urge to tell them will be there, but so help you God to never reveal these 5 things about your man to your girlfriends. His secrets Men are secretive by nature. They do not tell their friends their secrets. So, when your man confides in you, it means he completely trusts you and knows that his secret is safe with you. Do not be tempted to share his secrets with your girlfriends no matter how juicy a topic they would make. Your friends will never look at him the same way again. Worse still, he might learn that you revealed his secrets and all his trust in you will be dead. His weakness So your man has a weakness and it drives you mad? Of course he’s hum

There are certain traits that the majority of women look for in a man. But other aspects of your personality could be a deal-breaker for one woman and simultaneously the reason another falls in love with you. Beauty of all kinds really is in the eye of the beholder, and human uniqueness is what makes the search for ‘the one’ all the more interesting (and difficult). If you truly want to be a real man who’s respected as a fine gentleman, here are 15 traits of a true man that you need to blend into your own person. 1.Have your principles. 2.The same rules apply to him. Most people in the world don’t even realize this rule. A real man follows the universal rule that he applies to others and to himself. If he wants his woman to avoid looking at other men, he should avoid looking at other women too. A real man is not biased, nor does he set different rules for himself and others. 3.His word is his word. When a man makes a promise, he stands by it no matter what. 4.A real man is chiv

Leo nimeamua kuomba ushauri katika hili, maana sasa naona si kawaida Nilikua na maisha ya kawaida na yenye uhakika nikiwa mwajiriwa na pia kua shughuli ndogo nikiziendesha hapo hapo kazini zilizokua zinanipa kipato. Nilikua na rafiki wa kike ambae tulikujaingia katika mahusiano na kupelekea kupata ujauzito na kwakua ni kosa tushafanya nililazimika kuilea mimba mpaka kuzaliwa mtoto jambo ambalo lilinipitisha katika wakati mgumu kutoka na maradhi kwa mwenzangu nilijituma kiasi nikauza baadhi ya vitu ili aweze tibiwa, akapona tukaanza maisha tuko wakati huo tulipisha kauli mara kwa mara nikawa mvumilivu Baada ya uzazi nilimtaka afanye kazi nae asikae tu nyumbani lakini hakutaka akawa na sababu mtoto.wakati huo mtoto ana miaka miwili na mtoto alimpenda bibi ake (mama yangu ) sana hadi kupendelea kushinda kwake. Mke nilimwambia nafasi hiyo aitumie basi kufanya kazi alichagua atafungua genge mimi nikaona kuliko genge akaombe baraza za watu bora nimkodie frame atayoweka genge na p

Habari ya wakati huu msomaji wetu karibu tena kwenye ukurasa wetu wa mahusiano leo tutaelimisha jinsi ya kumtambua mwanamke asiye na mapenzi ya kweli ama kwa jina lingine wanawaita kicheche. 1.Mwanamke asiye na mapenzi ya kweli jambo la kwanza siyo rahisi kupenda mara nyingi hawataki mambo ya mahusiano na kupendana. Mara nyingi wanataka siku zote wawe huru hata mtu yeyote mwenye uwezo zaidi ya aliyenaye akitokea, iwe rahisi kwake kujihusisha naye. Utasikia akisema tuwe marafiki wa kawaida. 2.Anachukulia mahusiano kama njia ya kujinufaisha. Wanawake vicheche huwa hawaingii katika mahusiano kwa sababu wamependa, siku zote wanakuwa na agenda ya siri nyuma yake, unaweza kuita faida, kiujumla kwa kitu chochote atakachokupa katika mahusiano, ujue hapo anatarajia faida yake, utakuta anakuchangamkia na kukufanyia vitu ambavyo hukutarajia, ila lengo lake mwisho wa siku utakuta anaishia kukuomba kitu fulani kutoka kwako. Yupo tayari kufanya chochote hata kama kinamgarimu ilimradi apate kil

#Zero reaction anxiety Do you ever hold something back because you’re worried about how your partner is going to react? In your normal everyday life, you spend so much time monitoring your behavior. You stop acting like yourself and cater to the people around you but your relationship should be a safe space. Somewhere you can take off your filter where you can express anything you want to express without being scared or embarrassed. If you have zero reaction anxiety it means you trust your partner to embrace who you are. In a long term relationship very few things are more important than that. ##Healthy disagreement No one expects you agree on everything. People often imagine healthy relationships as this perfect utopia where the two of you are in sync 24/7. You see eye to eye on every decision you complete each other sentences. Your visions of the future couldn’t be more similar but that’s not what a healthy and positive relationship really looks like. The truth is there will be d

UHALISI WA MAISHA:  Maisha halisi ya mwanamke anayetarajia kuwa mke/ mke tayari hii ni kumaanisha kuwa wanawake mashujaa tunapaswa kuishi maisha ambayo yanatutambulisha kama mfano wa kuigwa ili tunapozungumza na kufundisha mabadiliko tuwe tunazungumza uhalisia wa maisha yetu ambao unajengwa na haya yafuatayo; UVUMILIVU:  Kuwa mvumilivu katika maisha yake ya kila siku hasa ukizingatia kuwa tunakutana na mambo mbali mbali yasiyotuvutia katika mahusiano yetu, mengine ni magumu na yanayokwenda kinyume kabisa na matakwa yetu au mazoea yetu ya binafsi. Ifahamike kwamba wewe kama mwanamke shujaa inapotokea umekutana na mambo kama haya hupaswi kuonyesha hasira zako wazi wazi kama vile; chuki, kulaumu, ugomvi, vurugu, malalamiko, manung’uniko, machafuko, kulipa kisasi au aina yoyote ya uharibifu kutokea kwako au ndani mwako. Hivyo mwanamke shujaa huwa ni heri kila anapokuwa kwani hutunza amani ya eneo alipo. UPENDO WA DHATI:  Maisha ya upendo wa halisi na sio wa kinafki kwa jamii inayomzun

Undapo utaona dalili hizi kwa mwezi wako wa kiume basi tambua fika basi, ya kwamba anMapenzi ya kweli. 1. Anakusaidia fedha pale unapokua umekwama kabisa, yuko na jukumu la kukusaidia kiuchumi. Anapenda kukupa kile ambacho amejaaliwa nacho. Hana mkono wa birika, Huyu anakupenda! 2.  Anazungumzia future yake na wewe, mipango ya baadae pamoja na wewe, huyu anayo dhamira ya dhati ku Anakupigia simu mara kwa mara na kukuuliza siku yako imeendaje. Anafanya hivi kirafiki na kwa upendo, haigizi. Anakupenda kweli. 3. Anakutembelea mara kwa mara, anakuwa karibu na wewe kipindi unaumwa, hii inamaanisha kwamba yupo tayari kukuvumilia katika shida na raha. Mpende mwanaume huyu. 4. Anawapenda ndugu zako kama ndugu zake. Anaongea nao vizuri na kusaidiana mambo ya hapa na pale. Mtizame kwa jicho la tatu huyu mwanaume! 5. Anaongea na wewe kwa adabu na kwa upole, anakukosoa bila wasiwasi kama kuna mambo unaenenda visivyo. Anakuelekeza njia zilizonyoka..sio wa kumuacha huyu!

Kuna mwanafalsafa fulani aliwahi kuandika katika maandiko yake akisema ya kwamba, maneno ya upendo yana nguvu sana katika mahusiano. Mtu unamwambia maneno mazuri na matamu katika mahusiano hujenga hisia mpya za kimapenzi. Hivyo kila wakati unatakiwa kujifunza kumwambia maneno yafuatayo mpenzi wako ili kujenga hisia za kimapenzi : 1. Umenifanya niwe mtu bora 2. Umenifanya nijisikie Kupendwa 3. I love you so much. 4. Kila niwapo na wewe najisikia vizuri. 5. Sitasubiri kukuona tena. 6. Napenda kutumia muda mwingi na wewe. 7. Napenda niwe wako. 8. Hakuna mtu anaweza kunipa amani nipatayo kwako. 9. Napenda uso wako. 10. Nashukuru kukuona 11. You’re so beautiful/handsome 12. Unanijali vizuri 13. Unanifundisha vitu vipya kila siku 14.I love how funny you are 15. Unanitaka niwe mwenza bora, naweza kuwa hivyo kwa ajili yako 16. Asante kwa kuwa nyuma yangu kila mara. 17. Napenda uwepo wako 18. You’re amazing 19. Wewe ni mtu wangu pekee katika sayari hii 20. Kuwa na wewe nap

Three words that paralyze, solidify or make people flee relationships. But why does it have to be so awkward to say those words? Is it about what it means, or what you interpret when your partner says them? You need to ask yourself what ‘I love you’ means to you. Does it mean marriage, moving in together or just that you treasure the person you are with? Is it a warm fuzzy feeling like a blanket in Nairobi’s July rains or is it just something to punctuate an orgasm? The meaning of these three words varies so intensely from person to person. Before you go blurting it out based on an ‘ideal’ time in your relationship, first ask yourself, what does ‘I love you’ mean to me? Being in love isn’t just something you ‘know’ – it is something you do. Love is action. You can say it; but does your beau experience it by the way you treat them, talk to them, think of them? Love is an action that comes incrementally. You can only love someone you know; spend time with, learn to

The beginning of a relationship is always the most exciting. You’re getting to know someone new with the same interests. Chemistry is hard to come by, so it’s a great feeling when you connect with someone with potential. Unfortuntately, it’s also common for those feelings to fade. One of you may get bored, or feel like the relationship isn’t moving fast enough. It’s a shame when something promising loses steam, but there are plenty of signs that a guy is losing interest to be on the lookout for. 1. Texting declines. Back when things were going well, the two of you couldn’t stop texting. Now, it’s hours in-between messages—if not days. This is a sign that you’ve fallen off of his list of priorities. That, or he’s just running out of things to talk about with you. Don’t push it. More texts won’t make him change his mind—they’ll probably just make him feel like you’re more maintenance than he’s ready for. 2. He’ll go out more, but not invite you. Suddenly, his gu

Ni kitu gani hasa kinamfurahisha mwanamke? Hauwezi kumfurahisha mwanamke kwa kumkejeli au kumshika baadhi ya maeneo ya mwili wake(utaishia kumchukiza na kujiondolea point). Utajua unamfurahisha mwanamke pale tu unapomfanya ajisikie furaha, na wakati mwingine hushindwa kujizuia na hujikuta anakukiss!. Ntakupa mambo matano ya kufanya ambayo yakuufurahisha moyo wa msichana unayemtaka(kumpenda). Unaweza kubadilisha muonekano wako kimavazi, wakati mwingine unaweza kumkazia macho lakini hiyo haitamfurahisha bali itamtisha. Kumchangamsha/kumfurahisha mwanamke kunahitaji kutengeneza mvuto(impression) zaidi ya muonekano na swaga. Kama unataka kujua jinsi ya kumfurahisha mwanamke , mwanzo wa yote, huanza na maongezi. Na mwisho wa yote ni hapo pia. Mawasiliano mazuri kimaongezi ndiyo njia pekee ya kumfurahisha na kumchangamsha msichana. Yatumie haya mambo matano, na utafanikiwa hata kabla ya kufikia mwihso: 1. Mshawishi kupitia kitu anachokipenda Unaweza kud

Truth or dare doesn’t have to be a group activity. Unless your friends are as kinky as fuck, you should only attempt these dares during a one-on-one game with your partner. It’ll make for some pretty amazing foreplay.But remember, these dares for couples have a way of arousing everyone a lot more than you think!1.Lick your partner’s ears.2.Spank, squeeze and pinch your partner’s butt.3.Place an ice cube on the girl’s navel until it melts.4.Pass a candy to your partner using just the lips / unwrap a candy together using only the lips.5.Kiss each other for a whole minute. 6.Give your boyfriend a lap dance.7.One partner lies down. The other partner moves their hand or a feather all over the laying partner’s body including all strategic regions.8.Unhook your girlfriend’s bra and take it off her body using just one hand.9.Lift your girlfriend’s shirt up from the back all the way to the collar using just your teeth.10.Stroke your partner’s tee shirt/pants until we see the pants move or the

Ndoa au Mapenzi ni tamko takatifu ambalo mamilioni ya watu tumejiingiza wenyewe kwa hiari. Hii ina maana kwamba umepata mtu wa kuishi na wewe katika raha na shida zote hadi kifo. Unakuwa umeingia katika kifungo cha Kupendana, kuheshimiana na urafiki, hata hivyo jinsi miaka inavyoenda unaweza kujikuta unapoteza umuhimu wa huu uhusiano na mbaya zaidi unaweza kujikutana unajisahau nini unahitaji kutoka kwa mwenzako. Kuna mambo ya msingi ambayo mwanaume yeyote huhitaji kupata kutoka kwa mke wake mpenzi na kinachotakiwa kwa mwanamke ni yeye kufahamu nini mwanaume anahitaji na kuwekeza kidogokidogo kwa kuongeza jitihada na muda ili haya mahitaji kuwa kitu halisi. Je ni Vitu gani mwanaume huhitaji sana kutoka kwa mke wake? 1. WANAUME HUPENDA KILE KILICHOKO AKILINI MWA MWANAMKE. Wanawake ni viumbe tofauti sana (complex) wao ni walezi kwa asili, waumbaji wa vitu, wasimamizi wazuri na wabunifu sana. Wanaweza kwa urahisi sana kuelezea kitu kilichopo kwenye akili zao li

Jealousy – That is unhealthy feeling that arises in most relationships. Where you want more attention from the person you love can do a lot more harm to you than you can ever imagine. Your emotions can cause you to have thoughts that make you believe that there’s no hope. It’s dangerous and can cause your relationship to crumble. Getting jealous from time to time is normal but when it goes a long way, it becomes catastrophic. Here are four ways to tame jealousy in your relationship: 1) Get your facts right Yes, you suspect your spouse is cheating or you suspect there’s something going on between him and the lady next door, but how certain are you? Your suspicions may be due to his recent behaviour – the way he smiles or the new attention he gives to himself. Before you do anything drastic, figure out if it’s true. Stalking him and reading his texts would only make you suspect him the more. 2) Talk to him about it This might be the last thing on your mi